When It Is Time for a Nursing Home

Moving a loved one is one of the hardest decisions a family makes. It is not failure. Signs: safety at home is no longer possible, the caregiver's own health is failing, or medical needs exceed what home care can safely provide. Tour three facilities. Visit at mealtime and once unannounced. Ask about staffing ratios, activities, and how they handle behaviors. After the move, visit at unpredictable times. Speak up early and often — you are still on the care team.